Before you
What you carry, continues.
Through bloodlines. Through barns. Through what you tolerate on Monday because you tolerated it last Monday.
Seeing it isn't the hard part.
Patterns don't continue because people are blind. They continue because changing them costs more than carrying them.
So you carry them. And call it circumstance. Or personality. Or just the way things are around here.
You can see it your whole life and still hand it forward.