Saying no isn’t enough
Ask someone young what they want to change and many will say, “The status quo.”
It sounds decisive. But it only tells you what they’re against, not what they’re for.
Saying no is easy. It doesn’t demand clarity. Or responsibility. Or any plan for what comes after.
You can reject the system without understanding it. You can critique the structure without offering an alternative. You can call for change without choosing a direction.
But rebellion isn’t a vision. It’s just a reaction.
And reactions rarely build anything that lasts.
The real opposite of the status quo isn’t defiance. It’s ownership.
Ownership begins when you pick a path, not just a complaint. When you start shaping something better instead of pointing at something broken.
Pushback is cheap. Building is expensive.
And change doesn’t come from saying no — but from choosing a yes.